How to deal tough times !!!

if you are going through hell, KEEP GOING

Last spring I was walking in a park. A short distance

ahead of me was a mom and her three-year-old daughter.

The little girl was holding on to a string that was

attached to a helium balloon.

All of a sudden, a sharp gust of wind took the balloon

from the little girl. I braced myself for some screaming

and crying.

But, no! As the little girl turned to watch her balloon

go skyward, she gleefully shouted out, "Wow!

I didn't realize it at that moment, but that little

girl taught me something.

Later that day, I received a phone call from a person

with news of an unexpected problem. I felt like

responding with "Oh no, what should we do?"

But remembering that little girl, I found myself saying,

"Wow, that's interesting! How can I help you?"

One thing's for sure - life's always going to keep us

off balance with its unexpected problems. That's a

given.

What's not preordained is our response. We can

choose to be frustrated or fascinated.

No matter what the situation, a fascinated "Wow!"

will always beat a frustrated "Oh, no."

So the next time you experience one of life's unexpected

gusts, remember that little girl and make it a "Wow!"

experience. The "Wow!" response always works.

Some poems that have always revived me........whenever I was down with the life !!!

compiled by Kamaljeet Sudan

हो गई है पीर पर्वत-सी पिघलनी चाहिए,
इस हिमालय से कोई गंगा निकलनी चाहिए।
आज यह दीवार, परदों की तरह हिलने लगी,
शर्त लेकिन थी कि ये बुनियाद हिलनी चाहिए।
हर सड़क पर, हर गली में, हर नगर, हर गाँव में,
हाथ लहराते हुए हर लाश चलनी चाहिए।
सिर्फ हंगामा खड़ा करना मेरा मकसद नहीं,
सारी कोशिश है कि ये सूरत बदलनी चाहिए।
मेरे सीने में नहीं तो तेरे सीने में सही,
हो कहीं भी आग, लेकिन आग जलनी चाहिए।

व्रक्ष हों, खड़े भले, हों घने, हों बड़े, 
एक पत्र छाँव की माँग मत, माँग मत, माँग मत 
तू ना रुकेगा कभी, तू ना थमेगा कभी
कर शपथ, कर शपथ, कर शपथ
ये महान दृश्य है, चल रहा मनुष्य है
अश्रु, श्वेत,रक्त से लथपथ, लथपथ, लथपथ
अग्निपथ अग्निपथ अग्निपथ

हारता जो नही मुश्किलो से कभी,
जिसका मक़सद है मंज़िल को पाना,
धूप में देखकर थोड़ी सी छाया,
जिसने सीखा नही बैठ जाना,
आग जिसमे "लगान" की जलती है,
"कामयाबी" उसी को मिलती है...

Time to Make a Move......Time to go for a Movie

By Kamaljeet Sudan

      I have been a movie buff right from my child hood days. I remember going for the movies those days was a special delight for me as a kid. Though things have changed a lot in comparison to past, yet the word MOVIE still at times, reflects same passion, same joy and same happiness as it used to do earlier. The methods to promote movies were quite different then. There were ordinary vocal announcements and mouth to mouth publicity, not like the trailers or promos of todays time. 

    Watching movie then was not less than a festival, where the intervals were eagerly awaited, because thats when the pop corns and colas were to be offered. I dont exactly remember how much did it cost but yaa they were not for free for sure as they are today. The concept of movies for free has changed the eagerness and excitement towards movies a lot. The IT Set up today has made it possible to watch any movie what so ever without even paying. You can download it from any dark net source or get pirated versions or movie warez providers, but it can't replace the fun and family closeness ties the movies provided earlier.  

      Weekend is on the way, so I am surely looking to go out for a movie though haven't decided yet but will go through certain reviews. I would surely tell which movie I did choose and what I drew out from it. I was just thinking to watch out some trailers and decide which movie should I see. Fortunately, I have found a good website(http://filmowepasje.pl/index) which is helping me a lot to figure out which movie I should see this weekend.........It can provide every type of movie stuff whether it be action, romance, thriller, horror or drama. Let me decide and i would let you know what did I choose. 

Stressed? Worried ? No Focus ? relax.......this is how you chill out your mind...

Mind is the deepest commodity found in this world. I have chosen the word ‘commodity’ here for mind because Mind is the organ of the body that sets the tone for all the trades the life sets with its surroundings. If you can think about it, you certainly can do something about it. There were some lines in once heard by my teacher about mind which I still reckon “If you can’t make a castle in your mind, you will never ever do it on ground”. We have often heard about the words like Mind games, Mind power, Mind lessons, Mind teasers. All these terms lead to single direction, i.e. Ability to think, concentrate and comprehend.

But how to embellish the power of mind and relish its core efficiencies, well that’s what I want to suggest for the moment in this blog. Today, lives are hectic, schedules are frantic, daily routines are chaotic and ambitions are frantic. To get out this weird, vicious cycle you just need to chill out your brain and relax your mind. Well that’s what I am going to share with you. There are numerous methodologies to relax your mind…….Here’s a couple, uncomplicated and anytime to perform methods….

•    Watch your breathing. It’s the basic step to relax your mind. When ever you are disturbed, excited or tense, your breathing will be shallow. Just catch this trait. Breath deep, deeper and deepest.  You would instantly began to reach the state of calmness.
•    Visualise. Visualisation is other tactic to calm and relax the mind. Guide yourself. I know its difficult. But a little progress everyday adds up to big results. Guide yourself to an imaginary situation. Close your eyes and Imagine…………Good weather………….. nice wind…………. green scenic beauty………birds chirping………….. water splashing beside……peace …..harmony…….silence…….calmness………… I know as soon as you would close your eyes, a sudden thought will come of the dog barking outside…..black color dog……you were once bitten by a dog at John’s house…….John has a cute sister/brother………John’s all sisters are cute……..they are all cute like pussy cat dolls band girls……..Pussy cat dolls band rocks…….rock salt is not in kitchen…….SUDDENLY….oh my gosh….wherez my Calming down of mind………….DON’T PANIC….that’s how thought pattern in mind works. Just gather your self back and start again. Practice will make you perfect and focused.                                                                                                                         Try out this methods, especially if you stressed out, encountering problems of deviated focus or giving some exam like stuff. I am sure it will work out. It surely did for me.

Joke for the day:

Three Yogis are doing meditation in a remote cave. One day a sound is heard from outside the cave. After about six months, one of the yogis says, "Did you hear that goat?" Once again, there was silence. About a year later, one of the other Yogis says, "That wasn't a goat; it was a mule." Again, there was silence. About two years later the third yogi says, "If you two don't stop arguing, I'm leaving."

Wondered Why is India So Corrupted ??? Well, the reason is Indian Gods and Goddesses too don't listen until you offer them something…

                        Well India is said to among the world’s most corrupted countries. Why is it so? Why is it that we, the so called pioneer’s of knowledge, the epitomes of truth and morality, the propellers of knowledge and blah and blah, THE INDIANS so corrupted these days ? Whether it’s A.Raja or Kalmadi or Bhuvesh Shah or what ever ?

Well the answer lies in our senses, our roots, our belief system and every thing.

Firstly It is god’s fault and not the fault of us Indians, that our system is so corrupted. We have got to do nothing with corruption, it’s the Indian gods and goddesses who lay the foundation  of corruption. The basic funda of corruption is offer something to get your job done.  

1. Well to start with “wanna good husband or wife” ……hmm butter up Lord Shiva for atleast 16 Mondays and only then you stand a chance to get that. Might even have to walk bare foot to the temple. Well, of course getting a life time assurance for marriage needs a special effort.
2. Wanna combat the “Mangal/Mars” or in layman’s sense, the hard times……or having some problem in your sperm counts or ovary fertilization….file a petition to Lord Hanumaan for couple of Tuesdays, wear yellow, stay away from eggs or other non-veg stuff and if the lord is impressed………wait for miracles. If you don’t do this, torrid times would be waiting for you.
3. Here comes A WEDNESDAY. Well Lord Ganesha holds supremacy over this day. If u have niche to be intelligent and are thriving for some good luck…..you need to please this god. If u are giving some competitive exam or need some intellectual power………well wear some green clothes & got to serve some LADDUs and have all the charm you need.
4.  Thursday has been occupied with Lord Vishnu……..generally the boss of all devas………bribe him and being a multitasking personality, can help you out in almost all affairs……Shove away SALT……….coz if he minds it……then yanna rascalla……..watch out.
5. Goddess Santoshi……the mother of satisfaction……..rules Friday through out India……..please her and you would have all the satisfactions in your life.
6. Saturday belongs to “Shani devta”. If you want to escape from hardships in your life……better have good terms with this lord……….one evil look…….and BOOM for atleast 7 and ½ years for sure……….wear black and keep the supply of mustard oil uptodate………….
7. The lord Sun, riding on his seven horses chariot, rules Sunday. Wear red and keep offering him red flowers……..else there would be darkness and darkness all around                                                        So, if any of your offer is not upto the mark………….Life would take you to La La Land……………  JOKE  ON THE TOPIC:                                                                                                           Two corrupt government officials(from India & USA) were attending an international conference on Development in Singapore. During the break they were comparing notes on the dirty doings in their respective regions.Delegate from USA boasted of his new big house and his late-model BMW - saying that he'd got the money by skimming six per cent off the budget of a newly built bridge.Delegate from India produced a photograph of a river in the middle of his region. "See that bridge?" he said, pointing at the photograph."What bridge?" asked delegate from USA."One hundred per cent!" said the delegate from India

Is the girl interested in me??? Do I have a chance ???

Well a fews eyes would be raised on this topic.....that why am i writing on this topic....Well no offences made....it was a task given by my couple of friends to blog something for the younger generation and on a personal problem of a very special person "FUTURE MLA OF JAIPUR". Well here are some tips to confirm that a girl/lady is interested in you. Well the girls can also take a cue to not to exhibit these traits...else the boys would misinterpret............

1. All Girls are different so be aware of signs. Listen to her Voice Tone. If she's shy, the tone of her voice might be a little more soft, and she might start to play with her hair (smoothing it down, twirling, flipping ) adjusting her clothes and might slightly stare at you. Surely, the girls reading here would feel....Huh....we never do such things.Well, folks thats the over confidence that often leads them to trouble. 
2. A Girl that is interested in you will usually immediately smile when you start a conversation with her. Well this smile is a bit different from ordinary smile generally full of an unexpected strong emotion. Girls are from Venus, they would never agree to this smile theory, well ....ahem ahem....men are from Mars and Martians very well know... how to decode the smile code.
3. Notice if she "accidently" bumps into you more often that what people do. If she finds excuses to do so, then you are probably on the right track. She may also find other reasons to touch you, such as by lightly hitting you, soft punching etc. but all this with a subtle variation from the routine ones.
4. If she likes you, she will observe you in two different ways, either she will hold the stare for a long time or she would pull away immediately. Either of these could mean that she likes you. Beware she's not angry with you.
5. Notice If most of the girl's friends are glancing at you, generally smiling or giggling, it means she has discussed about you with them. Now thats a positive sign.
6. If she constantly asks you about your status with girls or your preferences about girls.......hmm it means she is trying to figure out if she fits in !!
7. If she offers an hangout only with you............you definitely stand a chance.

                      Well these are some ordinary tips to check out if you have a chance initially. Mind you, all these traits should be tried under strict professional guidance under safety measures. What i m trying to convey is these tips could work only if u already share a friendship and good understanding.........Coz gone are days when you could buy a book titled" 101 ways to make a girl fall in love" and be a casenova. Be a true copy of yourself attested by your own uniqueness and natural attire. 

JOKE FOR TODAY:-

Sardar ji said I love you to his girl friend and dropped to the ground.......guess why???????

coz he had fallen in love.......:-P 

इधर भी गधे है, उधर भी गधे है जिधर देखता हूँ, गधे ही गधे हैं....... a Hindi poem by om prakash aditya........Donkeys are all around

..

Idhar bhi gadhe hain,udhar bhi gadhe hain,
jidhar dekhata hun, gadhe hi gadhe hain,

gadhe hans rahe, aadami ro raha hain,
hindostan main yeh kya ho raha hian?

jawani ka aalam gadhon ke liye hain,
yeh rasiya, yeh baalam gadhon ke liye hain,

yeh dilli, yeh paalam gadhon ke liye hain,
yeh sansaar saalam gadhon ke liye hain,

tu pilaye ja saaki,pilaye ja dat ke,
tu whisky ke matake pe matake pe matke,

main duniya ko ab bhoolana chahata hun,
gadhon ki tarah ab jhoomana chahata hun,

ghodon ko milati nahin ghaas dekho,
gadhe kha rahe chyavanprash hain dekho,

yahaan aadami ki kahaan kab bani hain,
yeh duniya to gadhon ke liye hi bani hian,

jo galiyon main dole, wo kaccha gadha hian,
jo kothe pe bole wo saccha gadha hain,

jo keton main dikhe wo fasali gadha hain,
jo muke par cheekhe wo asli gadha hain,

main kya kah gaya hun, yeh kya kah gaya hun,
nashe ki pinak main kahaan bah gaya hun,

mujhe maaf karana main bhataka hua tha,
wo tharra tha, bheetar jo atka hua tha!!

What if India had a similar Tsunami & Nuclear leakage Crisis which japan had...........?? an hypothetical camparison

I came across this post related to japan's latest crisis while surfing. Amazing... worth emulating their sense of national pride and civic sense! When you think of our own country India........well things appear disgusting .Hope it touches all hearts as it did mine. Its not that we have no good examples, but this is not from an individual/s. It is the entire population and all elements within that showed collective learning. Do share if you come across more like this.

1. THE CALM

Not a single visual of chest-beating or wild grief. Sorrow itself has been elevated.

2. THE DIGNITY

Disciplined queues for water and groceries. Not a rough word or a crude gesture.

3. THE ABILITY

The incredible architects, for instance. Buildings swayed but didn't fall.

4. THE GRACE

People bought only what they needed for the present, so everybody could get something.

5. THE ORDER

No looting in shops. No honking and no overtaking on the roads. Just understanding.

6. THE SACRIFICE

Fifty workers stayed back to pump sea water in the N-reactors. How will they ever be repaid?

7. THE TENDERNESS

Restaurants cut prices. An unguarded ATM is left alone. The strong cared for the weak.

8. THE TRAINING

The old and the children, everyone knew exactly what to do. And they did just that.

9. THE MEDIA

They showed magnificent restraint in the bulletins. No silly reporters. Only calm reportage.

10. THE CONSCIENCE

When the power went off in a store, people put things back on the shelves and left quietly

well on an imaginative perspective, lets assume that We Indians were to face a similar sort of crisis, the things would have been totally different. Though I may sound anti Indian and a bit pessimistic but the fact is thats the civic sense we indians have culminated. We have no planning what so ever. No Disaster Management attributes what so ever. 

1. The Frantic

There would have been visuals of disarray, restlessness and pain. The graphs of sorrow would have been at its peak.

2.The Ignominy 

There would have been crusades for basic amenities. Helicopters would have dropping supplies and people looting them.

3. The Fraility

There would have been wreckage and debris all around. Roads cracked & Gutters blocked upside down because of poor town planning. Jairam Ramesh would have said that issue would be looked upon later, right now we are focusing LHASA City

4. The Hoarding & Black Marketing

Those having the resources would have chosen this as a heaven made time to make profits at any cost what so ever. Sharad Powar would have said that prices will fall eventually, nothing much govt. can do about it.

5. The Chaos

There would be looting of shops. Politicians using the opportunity to criticize the opposition and use the situation for political motives.

6. The Inefficients

Police would have said that call  NSG commandos.Home ministry would have said that they are not trained for rescue operation. Opposition would have demanded resignation of P.Chidambaram.

7. The Crudeness 

Hotels and restaurants would have hiked prices. ATMs and Shops would have been looted.VIPs would have been provided special refuges to planes.

8. The No Preparedness & Blame Game

No one would have had any idea what to do. People would have flooded to temples and mosque pleading god to provide divine relief. Blame game would have started between ministers and concerned departments

9. The Media

Media would have gone bizarre spreading rumors creating misconceptions and spreading terror among masses. INDIA TV would have claimed that after the disaster, the voices of PATAAL LOK are now clearly audible and would have declared another date of end of world

10. The Unclean Conscience

There would have been utter chaos among masses, govt. , concerning departments. We would have found disparities all around with no common unifomity.

Psychology behind Social Networking............phase of GEEK-O-ADDICT

A very popular tv commercial punch line says "Earlier people used to talk face to face, but now people talk on face book". Seems quite funny but thats what the credo of time is. People next door are now people next IP address. Moreover the thing thats seems more sarcastic is that "the more you are fake, the more the people take" Social Networking sites are truly said as refrigerators,,, you always know there's nothing new...yet you check it anyways. 

I remember a post of my friend....which truly reflects how deeply social networking sites have groped our every day life . Here's a sample "OMG!!! My dog is being attacked by an Crocodile!  Hold my gun while I post it on Facebook first..." Thats how the priorities of people are changing........

The idea of social networking must have been surely originated from a GEEK who might be having a difficult time making friends. This is why social networking appears a bit of frusturated expression of introvert personalities. Though the excuses may be made of getting in touch with people in remote areas but this objective can be compiled by numerous other options.........here is a test if you are an social networking site GEEK-O-ADDICT.

1. Instead of asking "May i come in"......do you ever utter " May i Log In"?
2. Instead of saying "good bye".....do you ever say "Sign out"?
3. Do you ever hold nature's call to see if there's a new Notification ?
4. Do you ever click on "Like Justin Bieber" just to show your friends that you are hip hop?
5. Do you ever send friend requests to Celebrities just to show that you know famous people?
6. Do you ever like books or movies in your profile which you have never seen just to show off?
7. Have you ever cheated a quiz to show that your IQ is 100 just to boast among your friends?
8. Do you feel proud to be a farmer farming 5 to 6 hours a day in an air conditioned room on lappy?

If any of the aforesaid answer for you is yes then you need a cure to not to be a GEEK-O-ADDICT.......and here's the cure... for social networking addiction just press ALT & F4  it works amazingly or use CTRL & W and network window will turn blue

Being a Papa and an IPL follower.......Tough job man !!!!!!!

Being a Papa was a proud and an emotional & a great moment..........but as is said.....with great joys come great changes in life. My Daughter "Sahibaan" is a month and a day old now, and within this meagre time, she has made me realize that raising a kid is "the job" & does requires a strong thoracic bone as well as abundant supply of Adrenalin in your brain. 

• I remember an incident when my mother annoyed of me almost cursed me saying "when you will have a kid like yourselves, only then would you realize how troublesome you are to me and how the hell have you made my life"......though a mother's curse never fructifies but this one has...i guess....
• as soon as the IPL horn is played.......at once does my little sahibaan horn starts in........Shallu my wife comes and says "whom do you love more...your family or your bloody IPL" and every one can guess that this question would never come with a check box rather radio button with only single choice..........

First time as a blogger...

Writing has always been my passion......my cup of tea but writing for others is a new venture for me. I always comprised a niche for this but tranforming this into a reality had been quite innovative and novel for me. Though I am novice for the aspect but yet there is always a first step towards a MARATHON......keeping the fingers crossed